
There’s great power in knowing that your mother loves you. There’s even greater power in knowing she likes you. She thinks you’re funny. She thinks you are smart; she thinks you are pretty or handsome as the case may be.
Any thought of my Mom makes me feel at peace with the world.
I have many favorite memories of her, ones where I merely observed her.
One of my favorites is of her sitting at the dining room window behind her old Singer sewing machine. She faced out so, at a glance, she could observe the outside world as she worked. Her canary cage sat to her left up on a pedestal.
As she diligently concentrated on her sewing and as the sewing machine whirred, the canary sang. What bliss! She was content. I was content.
I never thought about being a mother when I was a child. I was one of those weird little girls who didn’t like to play with dolls or play house. I would rather climb a tree or go in search of salamanders under rocks.
Then it happened! I met the love of my life and we embarked on a 56 year journey of marriage and parenthood. A miscarriage first time pregnant made me feel such great loss that I knew I must have children. They would complete me and fill the yearning I’d discovered I had.

As I go about my life, I hope they are watching me and that I can give them strength through my strength like my mother did for me.
Yes, I hope they, too, can hear the canary sing.
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